Hanky Panky
Sex sells, but at what cost? Come inside the world of sex work with your naked therapist Hank, an ex-stripper, dominatrix, and sugar baby turned OnlyFans girl. Each week Hank and her guests will explore and educate about the ins and outs of the world’s oldest profession. You definitely didn’t learn this stuff in health class...
Episodes

May 22, 2024
May 22, 2024
1hr 20 min
Would it be beneficial to use sex robots to fulfill one’s violent paraphilic disorder?
TW: Mentions of pedophilia, conversations around paraphilic disorders that may mention varying levels of sexual and physical assault, strangulation, addictions, mentions of murder/suicide, and numerous levels of violence.
A debate of the pro’s and con’s of sex robots pertaining to paraphilia disorders and violent urges/fantasies. I am not a professional nor do I have a degree in sex psychology. These are simply my own opinions which may be subject to change depending on new information.
Links or sources mentioned:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6719485/
https://www.cengage.com/c/mindtap-for-our-sexuality-14e-crooks/9780357360750/
https://www.npr.org/2020/04/13/833331551/sex-machines-love-in-the-age-of-robots
https://www.theravive.com/therapedia/sexual-masochism-disorder-dsm--5-302.83(f65.51)
https://web-p-ebscohost-com.lavc.idm.oclc.org/ehost/detail/detail?vid=2&sid=f9ec3c77-490e-4bf4-aad3-58d567c9c377%40redis&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWhvc3QtbGl2ZQ%3d%3d#AN=23355757&db=pbh
Insta/twitter: @SirStinkie
Podcast email: thehankypankypodcast@gmail.com
My website: www.iluvhank.com

Apr 12, 2023
Apr 12, 2023
1hr 53 min
Juicy Capri (Juicy.capri on snapchat) comes on the podcast to talk about having a private snap, not showing her face, and what it's like dealing with different forms of oppression. She talks about being an onlyfans assistant and how sociology classes helped educate her on topics such as the sex work privilege hierarchy. (this audio file was corrupted so im sorry if any sound is wonky)
Hank @sirstinkie
https://beacons.ai/hankie

Apr 4, 2023
Apr 4, 2023
1hr 17 min
Lucy Lovejoy @sugarpl4m (insta) @lucyloverxxx (twitter) discusses growing up in private catholic schools, how tiktok changed the course of her life, and how they first explored polyamory. We go on many tangents discussing queerness and what is going on in the world currently. Lucy explains how their disabilities ultimately led them to explore sex work and make it a career using adaptability and social media promotion.
Hank @sirstinkie
https://beacons.ai/hankie

Mar 28, 2023
Mar 28, 2023
52 min
Dasha Bond @dashbonda (insta) @dashbondar (twitter) sat down with me after we shot some scenes. We discussed her intro into femdom and how she approaches client bdsm sessions. She explains how every sub differs, why she prefers a phone call, and the fetishes that make her the horniest.
Dashas links: MistressDasha.com/links
Hank: @sirstinkie
Hanks links: https://beacons.ai/hankie

Mar 8, 2023
Mar 8, 2023
2hr 11 min
Suraj @benadrylsubmarine tells me about his first experience as a client, why he is banned from holiday inns, and who his favorite sex workers are. We relate on sobriety and the awkwardness that comes with sober sex. The audio kind of jumps around sometimes because file uploaded wonky, My apologies.
Hank @sirstinkie

Feb 28, 2023
Feb 28, 2023
2hr 45 min
Ive been asked 1,000+ times for beginner onlyfans tips. Let's get into the good, the bad, and the ugly. How to grow accounts, safety tips, what I do for burnout, and so much more. Listed below are a few helpful links..
A google doc I made with basic info:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1PBm0MfNg9prvRse9jQW-gzpQYoZk5GZsu672WdrKtgw/edit?usp=sharing
reddit advice video that i used when starting reddit:
https://youtu.be/ykB3m0Gr5ew
a small subreddit (nsfw) spreadsheet:
Subreddits - Google Drive
simple breakdown of how to use the actual onlyfans website:
https://youtu.be/JmF6MFYlZNI
brandit scan:
https://branditscan.com
best VPN options:
https://www.forbes.com/advisor/business/software/best-vpn/
safety tips for sex workers:
https://theredproject.co.uk/safety-tips
sex work friendly therapy:
https://pineapplesupport.org
hank @sirstinkie

Jan 24, 2023
Jan 24, 2023
1hr 42 min
Cinnamon Baby @cinnamonnbbxo and @cinnamonnbabyy and I decided to make a segment since she's my most requested guest. We answered all of the questions people sent us on insta and laughed until we almost puked.
Hank @sirstinkie

Jan 17, 2023
Jan 17, 2023
1hr 22 min
Ivy @plant.gal tells me about her experience with sex parties, how she learned to squirt, and what its like getting tased. We relate on learning boundaries in sex work and getting weird hate comments.
Hank @sirstinkie

Dec 20, 2022
Dec 20, 2022
1hr 32 min
Steve (@dsdummy_ on twitter) was once an accountant, turned professional poker player, who now films porn. We discuss what it means to be submissive and how he practices this kink on and off camera. We briefly discuss filing taxes in this line of work, crazy poker stories, and how it feels to hold your breath for minutes at a time.
The clip store with content mentioned in this episode:
Clip store.
Hank @sirstinkie

Dec 6, 2022
Dec 6, 2022
1hr 25 min
Elle aka Pretzelle (@outlawelle on insta @thepretzelle on twitter) talks what it was like growing up queer in a religious space, getting accounts deleted numerous times, working with photographers, and how they started contortion. We relate on sobriety and our first sexual experiences. Often times people don't understand how discriminating social media platforms can be, getting to relate with a coworker about whorephobia online is therapeutic.
Hank @sirstinkie





